Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Hypnosis Gastric Bypass - What do you have to loose ? Weight ? Time ? Opportunity to Relax ?



Hypnosis Gastric Bypass - Want to Loose Weight ?
 
Surely most of you have heard of hypnosis. And there are many definitions in peoples mind of what hypnosis actually is !  (I'm a hypnotist and Life Coach).

The short of it, hypnosis is relaxation. It’s not any voo-doo ! It’s not the hypnotist controlling you. Matter of fact, it’s you controlling your own mind, by way of your subconscious.

Unfortunately, many don’t realize, the reason we hang on to old habits and old beliefs is because it has a hold onto our subconscious mind. And, sadly, whether we realize it or not, we’re not CHOOSING to let it go.

That’s the value of hypnosis !

This entry is not meant to be a hypnosis lecture, it’s about Hypnosis Gastric Bypass. Believe it or not, there’s some reason, in the back of ones mind, that we all CHOOSE to hold onto, that keeps our weight on (unless you have a true medical condition that hinders your weight loss).

Sadly, hypnosis and Hypnosis Gastric Bypass is much bigger in Europe than in America. If it were as big here, as it was there, our bodies and mind would actually be much healthier !

Back in January 2012, on the Dr Oz show, was the 1st 3 Americans, presented on TV in America, that had tried the Hypnosis Gastric Bypass. They were happy; they could feel and see the difference this has made for them.

Before the Dr Oz show, I had already ordered tapes back in December 2011 and began my 1st session with some friends and on myself in January 2012 . It truly did make a difference for all of us in eating smaller amounts. I immediately lost 23 lbs and I truly, even today (June) consciously eat smaller amounts !  I've even been on a cruise since and the waiter truly worked with me.  And, when I go out to eat, I now bring home close to 2/3 of my food.  Saves me a lot of money in meals !  

I've worked with another group of ladies since.  It definately helped them.  One lady said, she would bake 2 cakes almost every weekend and help eat them both, but now, she had lost her interest in them.  Another use to order soft drinks and naps every night at work, but has now stopped.  So it actually does bring you value and savings ! 

It’s truly time to make Hypnosis Gastric Bypass a bigger concept in America ! Not only could many of us afford to loose some weight, AND use and learn how to RELAX more … Americans need to CHOOSE to actively spread the word in helping others (friends, family, co-workers) ! Why should we CHOOSE to stay unhealthy when there are other CHOICES.

My offer in helping … Buy these MP3 tapes (cost $ 4.45) then call me and leave message (434-473-7470) or email me at
CoachVivianWebb@TheCruzLady.com. (If you get nothing more from these tapes than relaxation, you are already batting 100).  I will call you back and complimentary talk to you on other insight you need in helping make these tapes and your weight loss a success. All I ask in return is you keep me updated on how you’re doing, how it’s working, and how you like the program for at least 6 wks.
http://www.amazon.com/Gastric-Band-Hypnosis/dp/B004TQ1OBU/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1339615170&sr=8-1

My 2nd offer.  Have a group, minimum of 3, and I will come out to you (city of LYH), for 3 sessions, for $125 pp. These sessions will include more than hypnosis, as there are several discousion and insight you will need in helping you be successful.  Again, if you get nothing more from these sessions that relaxation, it will help you !  In return, I will also ask that you keep up with me in how you’re doing, how it’s working, and how you like the program for at least 6 wks.

What do you have to loose ... Other than possibly weight ... Some of your time ... and a little relaxation !


PS.  My normal one one one hypnosis sessions are $ 300 for 3 sessions.

PSS.  Normal cost for Hypnosis Bypass Surgery sessions, one on one, is $ 400+ to $ 3,500; just check out the net !

PSSS.  I have made the above offer, for groups, with CVCC and LYH Rec Cnt and have heard nothing back.  If you have connections, please help me help more LYH folk.   Thank you. Coach Vivian M. Webb, C.Ht, PCLC  



Friday, June 1, 2012

Strategic Intervention - Knowing the 6 human needs can actually help you relate better to others, as well as, know YOUR own self more


http://robbinsmadanescoachtraining.com/?p=629
Tony Robbins is truly a great speaker. He most definitely knows how to help you learn how to relate to others, as well, understanding yourself better; “Why” we do what we do (feel how we feel) ! It all begins with knowing that we “all” have the same “6 human needs” … And we “all” strive to have these needs met, whether we opt to meet them in a positive or negative way.   Even tells why we opt to procrastinate/Why we choose not to change and even hold on to the negative in our lives … It’s all about the 6 human needs !
He offers a 5-Part Strategic Intervention Mini-Training.

It’s to your benefit to view the entire series yourself. Or, you can ultimately choose the shorter  version, by reading my summary below.

6 human needs:

1st 4 needs (needs of the personality - everyone meets them, even if you lie to yourself) are the most fundamental, which we must all have; the last 2 needs are what make you fulfilled (the needs of the spirit) and very few people are fulfilled

Tony Robbins believes success without fulfillment is failure !

PS. As soon as something meets 3 of your needs, you become addicted to it (doesn‘t matter if it‘s negative or positive)
 
1. Certainty. We all want comfort; avoid pain; have pleasure. Avoiding pain is a survivor instinct. Without certainty, we feel damage and that means death. The question is, how much do you need ? The more uncertainty you have, the more you will learn; the more you have to be certain about everything, the “less” you will have ! You can either “temporarily” give yourself a replacement, like thru food, or “tell yourself”, you have always find a way, and you’ll do it this time to ! So will you choose attainable or sustainable ! Everyone finds a way to “attain certainty” but can you sustains you, long term !

2. Uncertainty. We have a need for variety; for surprises that you want; cause surprises you don‘t want, you call problems. We need variety and the unknown to be alive ! That’s why we eat and smoke, etc (that‘s why people get addicted), to receive a new feeling ! Life is boring with more “certainty”. People who are variety driven end up with a different kind of life than those who are certainty driven ! Variety is available all the time; problem is, people want certainty more, and that’s why they are bored. Do you have problems, fears, or hesitations, that give you emotionally uncertainty ?

3. Significance. To feel important; to feel special; be needed; be unique. Every person has this need (whether negative or positive). Some people do this by achieving everything; by solving big problems; by having more money; more toys; being more christian; have more earings than anyone else; by unique hair style; by how they walk; how they talk; unique tatoos; their humor; trouble maker; being the best parent; by being tuff, no matter what someone does to you. Everyone finds away to be different, unique, or to be needed or to feel important ! A person can feel significant by having a significant big problem that you can share with everyone (ex. My high insurance); you don’t have to face your fear, cause now you’re significant, which is the choice most people make; it gives you opportunity to defend yourself, which makes you significant.

To be significant, it means you must be unique, which violates #4; the more different you are, the less connected you are

4. Connection/Love. Most people settle for connection, cause it’s less scary ! You hurt yourself for life, if never risk yourself to love; keeping it far away. It’s easy to get connected; fastest way to get connected is have a “problem”.
When you succeed, often people loose their connection of their significance in the world; rather than work hard and get more for themselves, which takes time, it’s faster to just tear you down !
Most people can get a connection (have a problem, be sick, be loved, make love, through prayer, through nature), but not at level they want, usually 3 or 4 our of 10; enough connection to not to do anything about it.

5. Growth. If you don’t grow, you die ! Everything in the universe grows or dies.

6. Contribution. You must contribute beyond yourself. Life is not all about you. You can feel temporary pleasure when something happens to you or for you, but that’s temporary. Everything either contributes or eliminated by evolution.

Robbins-Madanes Training - 5-Part Strategic Intervention Mini-Training

 
 
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http://robbinsmadanescoachtraining.com/?p=629

Thursday, May 31, 2012

Building Better Relationships - 4 part series




Found this online and thought I would share.

Welcome to the Better Relationships 4-part series ! By Robert A. Rohm, Ph.D.
Today, is lesson 1, and lessons
2 through 4 will come over the next 3 days.


Better Relationships - Lesson # 1 of 4
Are You Aware?
 

By taking just a few minutes to read this mini-series on Better Relationships, you may very well become AWARE of things that will literally change the way that you relate to everyone in your life. That is a bold statement, but it is very true! Thousands of people have told me that this information was the turning point in their life in terms of improving their relationships.

What's the big deal...

Would you agree that your success in life is largely due to your success in working with other people? Let's put it this way, would you agree that it is more difficult to be successful in life if you are ineffective in working with other people? One of your greatest realizations in life is to recognize that there are some things that you do not know. As the saying goes, "You don't know what you don't know." Your "blind spots" are just that ... areas that you are "blind" to and just can't see. The things which hold you back may be the very things of which you are totally unaware. What if you could become AWARE of those things?

Discovery:

You cannot BEWARE of something,
until you are first
AWARE of something!

This is the starting point of growth - to realize that you have not "arrived" and that you can still learn something that will make you a better person. You are obviously open to these ideas, because you are reading this first lesson. You are willing to become AWARE of some new facts. Congratulations! It will amaze you when you begin to see your relationships in this new light.
Our 4-part lesson has a modest goal - to start you on a new journey of personal growth by giving you a framework to understand yourself and others.
Here is what I want you to do ... and this is very basic and very quick to accomplish. It takes less than 5 minutes, but it will prepare you to receive the treasure of truths in the next 3 lessons that follow in this series. I want you to write down a few things about some of the most important people in your life. Why? Because, I believe that THEY are worth your effort to learn how to relate better to other people as you apply this information. Sometimes, we will only do something when we know that those we care about will benefit. In other words, even if we will not do what it takes to grow for ourselves, we will put forth additional effort, if we know that it will help other people. So, please fill out the information below with the attitude that anything that you learn in this series will make your most valued relationships even better.

Better Relationships: Growth Sheet # 1


a) ___________________________________
b) ___________________________________
c) ___________________________________


2. In your own words, write down a very brief description of each of their personality traits and what you think their greatest need might be.  This is NOT a test. Just write down what you think. You will refer back to this list in the upcoming lessons.

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b)
 
c)
 
3) Finally, write down the name, personality description and greatest need of one person with whom you have a very difficult relationship.  (Suggestion: pick someone who you deal with often.)

_______________________________________________________________________________________
_______________________________________________________________________________________
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What's next? Lesson #2 will be automatically sent tomorrow!



You will learn a new way to look at how to understand personalities and how other people act, interact and react in different situations. Congratulations, you are on a new journey towards BETTER RELATIONSHIPS! Stick with these brief lessons! You will be glad that you did.
1. List 3 people that are important to you in your life (There may be more, but let's stick with 3 for now).

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Joel Osteen - May 27 - 2012 - The Power of Letting God


I was out of town for my BD celebration, but was fortunate to see Joel's sermon. 

Subject: Power of Letting Go.

You tried something, and it didn’t work; let it go.
If you keep wondering “why”, you’ll finally delve into self pitty or anger; let it go.
Let it go does not mean, letting your dreams go; Just the frustrations of not having it your way.
God knows better for you.
Maybe what you’re praying for is 2nd best; let go and let God drive.
Anything you think you “have to have” can put you out of balance.
It’s ok to say, God, here is what I want, but God, I trust you in what you decide for me; Let go and know that God knows what’s best for you.
God often closes one door to make you closer to where he wants you to be.
Stop being upset when you don’t get your way, cause God has another plan.
What you might think is a set back, could be a “set-up” in your benefit.
God is directing you; let go and you will come into some extra ordinary !
If we push to make something happen and it doesn’t come through, you’ve got to learn to let it go.
When you go thru a loss (whether it be a person, a job, a home, etc), it ca be difficult; but let it go; Trust God; You’ll step into a greater destiny.
Gods ways are not always our way; Trust God.
Stop wondering, “why” has this happened to me.
Start letting go; when you hold onto the “old“, it will keep you from the “new“.
God is always “for” you.
Stop using your energy to find out “why”. When we don’t understand, don’t allow yourself to be confused or frustrated; leave it alone. There won’t always be an answer to “your understanding“.
Accept when a “chapter” is over; when God puts a period (.). Don’t live in self pity; It’s only a chapter in your book; Move forward; turn the page; your life is not over !
If you gave it your best and it doesn’t work, let it go. Put a period (.) to that chapter of your life ! Turn the page; go to the next chapter; move on; It’s not the end to your life, just the end of the chapter. Don’t put a question mark; release it; let it go. Don’t go around in self pity; Put on a new attitude ! Do your part and move forward. Your past is not as important as your future !
Quit morning over what you can not change. Another seed is in front of you; move forward into the “new”.
What’s too big for you; let It go ! If it doesn’t make sense, just let it go. Quiet your soul; Don’t be bitter !
God will take what was meant for you as harm and make this into a benefit for you.
A lot of things today, make no sense, but one day, it will look great !
God will take tragedy and open a new door !
Let go of trying to make it “your way”. Let it go; release to God.
God has appointed another seed; another victory for you; He will handle any injustice to you.
Step forward to your destiny. Let it go. Let God know, that you might not know what is going on, but you trust him.
Stop trying to figure out why this happened to you !
No one knows “why” anything specific has happened ! It might not be fair. But God is a fair God and will make it all right ! God is for you ! He will make up for the unfair.
Stop trying to figure out “why” it happened !
Tell yourself it is ok to not know “why” ! Don’t waste your time & energy to figure out the “why”.
We seem to want reasons; to make sense in our own mind. But create a file in your mind; an “I don’t understand it” file; just file there and leave it alone !
If you don’t, you’ll become bitter !
Remember, if God wants you to know, he’ll tell you. It is his privilege to conceal info from you. Don’t put a question mark (?), where God has put a period (.).



His sermon's are truly so great to listen to.  I feel he is always talking directly to me.  Many of his stories, I get so personally emotional over, such as this week, the Trade Center stories ! 

The power of letting go, is really a great lesson to learn.  In reality, we really have no power over any of our destiny; or at least, not God's destiny, unless we learn to let it go and let it all be as he wishes !   

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Joel Osteen. May 20. God's Destiny For Your Life Will Come To Pass.



http://www.itbn.org/index/detail/ec/praXhwNDpdTYkdb_hlII3kVZdye-tvn_

Joel Osteen. May 13 - Accept People For Who They Are


(Sorry for delay in posting; I was actually out of town in Alaska)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q6bDGldzwAw

Quote of the day by Robert Rodriguez



*  The challenge is what was making it exciting. You don't want to do anything that's too easy or that you know that you can pull off, otherwise it's really not worth doing.
*  Only by seeking challenges can we hope to find the best in ourselves.


Have you ever noticed about yourself, that if the challenge is actually too easy, you often work at the task slower than you normally would ?
You might even find it ultimately boring ?
Or merely value less ?

That's truly why our daily goals, we have personal control over, need substance, need action, need self value !