Sunday, August 18, 2013

USAToday Coaching Trend article. Individuals and Corporations waking up to the value of Harmony Home Life to Work




There has been a tremendous increase, in just the last few years, with individuals and corporations seeking the guidance of a Life Coach.  The relationship between a higher harmony in one’s personal life concludes a definite effect on job performance, attendance, work relations and sociability, and satisfaction.   

Focusing to improve home life situations, whether it’s personal self-esteem, relationships, balancing responsibilities and finances, improving organizational skills, or getting out of a rut, is the new trend.   Recognizing the value in taking a pro-active stand versus past choices of “just settling”.

Folks who aggressively choose to purse valuable guidance are portraying the needed competence and strength towards reaching those desired choices for their life.  in life.   In article by Karen S. Peterson of USToday, Life Coach Laura Berman Fortgang expresses, “They are everyday, normal people who have their lives together. They realize the value of having somebody to help them think outside the box."

The article also reminds readers, that the past concept to psychologically diagnosis first, reach into your painful past first, is no longer the needed approach.  Nor does one need to receive services in person. Coaching allows a person to stay in the comfort of their home or office and speak with a Coach by telephone or by way of email communication.

Coach Patrick Williams shares the number of men receiving coaching versus women: 60-40.  It easy to understand why men would prefer this type approach versus traditional therapeutic sessions.  And why Life Coach, Martha Beck (seen on and write a column for the Oprah Winfrey Show/Magazines) expresses, “It’s OK to see a Coach and not OK to see a therapist”.

Williams also states that “teens are becoming more active with Life Coaches", to include Parent and Family Coaching.  What better way to reach into our country’s future than through our teens.  We’re starting them off early with college courses in our high schools, WHY NOT provide pre-guidance in personal life ? Pre-education as our future parents ?  Even more important, if home life affects work, what about schooling ?

When I first think of Parent Coaching, I actually think about the “parents of our current teens”.  Not only for the needed support and mentoring through “the teen years”, but in reaching for guidance with helping a teen. 

Coaching is about deriving specific goals, actually set by the individual and guided by the coach.  The individual then works towards the goals with different steps provided by the coach, with assistance from the individual.  The coach establishes deadlines.  The success of a coaching program requires responsibility and accountability from the individual. The coach is the motivator who cheers the individual forward !    

Beck’s choice words include, “enhancing” life, “balancing” and "integrating one's life”.  Include “asking extensive specific questions”, goal setting, “homework”, “journaling”, and “an action plan”.  Fortgang describes Life Coaching as "action-oriented, solution-oriented; concentrates on forward motion, not looking at the past.”

Williams says Life Coaching will "change the face of psychotherapy, helping people live a better life without the stigma of needing a diagnosis or a visit to a psychotherapist they don't want or need."

Williams also states in the article, coaching is about “discovering and creating”, not “healing and uncovering”.  Therefore, if a person is in need of more than a motivator, mentor, support and drive system, and instead, is more troubled, angered, or has other deeply rooted issues, it’s better for the individual to contact a mental health expert. 

Individuals can expect several months in reaching goals, with weekly phone sessions of ½ hour to an hour.  Also available is the email approach.  The article states to expect cost to vary from $300 an hour to $350-$600 a month.  Fees are not paid by health insurance.  Corporations often provide such services to their employees or hire a full time Life Coach to be on premise.

My fees are actually somewhat lower.  Coaching by phone as low as $ 89 an hour; by either committing to 9 sessions or by combining phone coaching with monthly email coaching.  Unlimited monthly emailing is $ 399 (currently excepting only 4 more clients). Payment is by Paypal with only a 48 hour prior payment for the next session.  A more costly and timely approach is meeting in person.  However, in person Hypnosis sessions are available at the same available hourly cost (one session $ 139 or $119x3) when meeting within the city limits of Lynchburg.

 
There are many topics available in coaching.  Besides those mentioned in paragraph two above and Parent Coaching, a few others include: forgoing relationships, entering separation or divorce, developing new skills and changing careers, and moving forward after victimization.  Though these topics may sound negative, these issues are not only real, an individual can take a more positive and direct approach towards reducing the enhances stress it can add to ones life.

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