Your Words To Others "Really" Matter in their Success

Do we know, how the power of "our words", influences others ? 

Words like, "Your hair sure is fixed nicely today", or "You did a great job on that", or "What would I do without you" ... These type words send people off happy about themselves, as well as how they think you feel about them.  Positive to a positive.

Well the opposite holds to.  When we say negative words or express negative feelings, this makes an impression too. 

Unfortunately, a friend today, told me something they said to their step-daughter ... "I can bet you right now, you will continue to set on your behind, and you will never amount to anything". 

Are we aware of the power of our words ?  Really ?  When we tell someone that they "will never" or "can't ever" amount to anything ... Did you know ? ... We are giving that person, PERMISSION, from YOU, yes permission from you, to NOT FAIL YOU, by doing as you say ... FAIL !

OK, so maybe you do feel this way about the person.  Do you really want their failure to rest in your hands ?  Or their success ?  If you think your words don't matter, it most certainly does.  This person probably looks at you as a mentor; Resting on every word you say. 

Negative can never turn into a positive, no matter how you may wish, nor by drilling someone.  Positive motivation is the key.  "You can do it", "You will succeed", even if you must fake your words.  Maybe in time, you too, will believe in the positive you are saying ! 

Please remember, Your words to others truly do matter in their success. 

SEE article by Michael Davis - The Power of Positive Words.  Click title for article.

WORLD TRAVEL HOLDINGS NAMED 2011 "ELITE TRAVEL PARTNER OF THE YEAR" BY NORWEGIAN CRUISE LINE

World Travel Holdings (WTH) - the nation's leading cruise retailer - today announced that it has been named Norwegian Cruise Line's 2011 "Elite Travel Partner of the Year."  The company, which includes CruiseOne, Cruises Inc. and numerous other brands, was chosen for its overall revenue, year-over-year growth and commitment to the Norwegian brand. 

In presenting WTH with this recognition, Kevin Sheehan, Norwegian Cruise Line's president and chief executive officer, said "in 2011, we renewed our commitment to the travel agency community with the introduction of Partners First, our corporate philosophy of putting travel partners first.  Norwegian Cruise Line's success relies on the support of our travel partners and we appreciate their dedication to our brand."
In late 2010, WTH's home-based division - which encompasses CruiseOne franchisees and Cruises Inc. agents - held its annual National Conference aboard Norwegian Epic.  That event was the largest in the companies' history and was instrumental in building upon WTH's relationship with the cruise line, providing firsthand product knowledge to attendees and offering top producers unprecedented access to the Norwegian Cruise Line team. 

In accepting this year's award, Brad Tolkin, Co-Chairman and Co-CEO of WTH said "I am honored to accept this prestigious award on behalf of the WTH employees, CruiseOne franchisees and Cruises Inc. agents who embraced this relationship and really made it happen in 2011.  We deeply value our partnership with Norwegian and know that their commitment to us has been critical in achieving a mutually successful partnership."

Dwain Wall, Senior Vice President and General Manager of CruiseOne and Cruises Inc., added "Norwegian Cruise Line has taken its commitment to the travel agency distribution model to new levels in 2011 with their Partners First initiative.  As an organization, WTH appreciates all that Norwegian continues doing to help us be successful.  This award signifies what two like-minded companies can achieve together, by supporting each other in every possible way."

Are you watching the new Super Nanny ?

If you want to learn HOW ... NOT to raise your children, watch the parents on Super Nanny. 
Tonight, Tues, Dec 4, one mother, locked the children in their room.  I guess, cause she didn't know how to deal with them.

Does she not know the damage which can occur.  I found this on the net, as one reference ...
The absolute denial of freedom, the denial of any kind of personal power or influence over one's life, affect the way he thinks, feels and acts. Isolation causes depression, despair, anxiety, rage, claustrophobia, hallucinations, problems with impulse control, and/or an impaired ability to think, concentrate, or remember." Studies have also shown that isolation can cause "impaired vision and hearing... tinnitus [(ringing in the ears)], weakening of the immune system, amenorrhea [(absence of menstrual periods in women)], premature menopause... and aggressive behavior in prisoners, volunteers and animals." Submitted by Serendip, Update, 01/17/2008

How do you feel about this parents actions ?

This is true relaxation !!

Learning how to relax is a key to good life balance and self respect.

'LIFE' THOUGHTS BY 'DUCKY'

I was sent this by email this morning and thought I would share




*  Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants.
*  When I was young we used to go 'skinny dipping,' now I just 'chunky dunk.'
*  I signed up for an exercise class and was told to wear loose fitting clothing. If I HAD any loose fitting clothing, I wouldn't have signed up in the first place!
*  Wouldn't it be nice if whenever we messed up our life we could simply press 'Ctrl Alt Delete' and start all over?
*  Don't argue with an idiot; people watching may not be able to tell the difference.
*  Why is it that our children can't read a Bible in school, but they can in prison?
*  Why do I have to swear on the Bible in court when the Ten Commandments cannot be displayed outside?
*  Life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

TODAY can be the 1st day of the rest of YOUR life !!

What is YOUR bucket list of dreams for YOU ?  Please share !

Did YOU know that only 100 out of every 100,000 people have made up a "bucket list" ?
Did YOU know that the majority of people do not write "down" a daily to-do list ?
Did YOU know that the 1st success step towards completing YOUR daily to-do list and working towards accomplishing YOUR bucket list is to "WRITE IT DOWN" ?  Most people put off beginning either of their desires/wishes, and the "hold back" is because they never complete the 1st step ...  WRITE IT DOWN !!  Writing it down, not only helps keep YOU focused, it motivates YOU, and helps keep YOU on target.  The 2nd step is sharing YOUR goals with others.  It helps YOU make a commitment and/or promise to YOUSELF, which will in turn, help YOU continue to work on YOUR list and get it done. 

Ask others around YOU if they write a daily to-do list or have written up their bucket list, and share what YOU discover !!  

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