"The Bully Project"
http://thebullyproject.com/
As a teacher and Life Coach, seeing this movie title, I was draw in going to see. Wasn’t actually a movie, but a film; which is basically what a movie is called when it is more for educational purposes versus entertainment.
This was more like a reality show. It was actual daily events of a few children that were being bullied. Some, opted in taking their own lives; and one, almost took the lives of others !
It’s an educational piece that … * Is trying to reach out, in letting others know, that Bullying is for real in our lives !
* Shows where children may turn, or believe is their only option, because the bullying in their life won’t stop.
* Provided families that had lost there children to bullying.
* Makes sense why many children have low self esteem
* Shares how cruel children can be to others
* Lets you know that your children do not often let you know what is going on in their school lives (whether they are being bullied or they are they one doing the bullying).
* Has you thinking about why kids and even adults may eventually reach out and harm others.
Bullying is often thought of as an isolated act or a situation where only a few kids at school are affected. When in fact, it’s much bigger that the average parent or consumer is aware of.
Check this out (your childs school):http://www2.wsls.com/news/2012/may/09/local-bullying-stats-available-online-ar-1903817/
As you watch this film, and see the parent reaching out to the school system for help, you also see that they continued to hear words like, “oh, it happens with all kids; no big deal”, or “there’s nothing we can do to stop how people do others“. Where in fact, I believe too, like the folks on the film, that schools most definitely need to take a stand.
Schools may not be allowed to smack children in today’s society, however, discipline can most certainly be enforced without a hitting a child ! Just like parents are taught in parenting classes, discipline is what shows children you care about them !
“Discipline is a symbol of caring to a child. He needs guidance. If there is love, there is no such thing as being too tough with a child.” ― Bette Davis
“Discipline isn't about showing a dog who's boss; it's about taking responsibility for a living creature you have brought into your world.” ― Cesar Millan
“You can't make your kids do anything. All you can do is make them wish they had. And then, they will make you wish you hadn't made them wish they had. ” ― Marshall B. Rosenberg
“Why is discipline important? Discipline teaches us to operate by principle rather than desire. Saying no to our impulses (even the ones that are not inherently sinful) puts us in control of our appetites rather than vice versa. It deposes our lust and permits truth, virtue, and integrity to rule our minds instead.” ― John F. MacArthur Jr.
For me, the movie had value. My wish is that all folks truly opt in taking the time to see this film; even one that ought to be shown at school, with the parents, right by the side of their children when viewing ! I believe it can help ….
#1, Make parents and consumers better aware (being more aware of surroundings/situations)
#2, Reach out to those kids being bullied in hopes they will opt in speaking up.
#3, Speak to the bullies !
It’s actually one I would like to see again, in capturing that which I may have missed !
Though I’m 110% for Bullying needing to be STOPPED, we do not live in a perfect World. Sadly, I am sure, there are folks out there that could care less if their kids bully another.
That’s why I’m sure many parents often turn to “Home Schooling”. Sorry, I am anti-home schooling, “unless“ you have encountered a drug problem or your child has been victim of bullying and no one is helping you; and you too feel you have no where else to turn !
However know ... the Bullying concept is becoming more known and recognized today ! And as a society or a parent, I do not feel any of us should run or hide from a problem, such as this. Instead, we need to fight together to fix it, so your kids too, have their RIGHT in being able to be around, interacting and socializing with other kids of their age !
See WSET-TV NEWS in LYH article (National Bullying Prevention Month:http://www.wset.com/story/19728798/national-bullying-prevention-month-talking-to-your-kids-about-bullying
My other thought, while watching the movie was, parents need to choose in taking a pre-initiative in prepared their children in dealing with possible bullying. WHY NOT, even before school age !
Take a look at your child … You think your child is perfect (understandably in your eyes) … Be realistic; how will others perceive your child ? Heard this story other day (thanks Schaef) … “Look at my child in the band; he is the only one keeping in step !”.
Unfortunately, society often looks at folks who are different, strangely, rather than having that needed empathy and compassion , which would help the World be a better place ! Haven't you caught your own self looking at someone who may have looked or acted oddly ? Remember, how we react to folks, I children follow suit !
Think about it for a moment (as I did while watching the movie), what is the definition of different ? Wearing braces, long ears, big nose, skinny lips, over weight, short hair, old clothes, very slow in moving, can't play ball, does not balance well on a beam, straight A student, talkative ... The list goes on !
See what I found online, right here in LYH:
http://lynchburgkarate.com/bully_proof_workshop.html
All in all, it's not about teaching your kids to get out there and fighting (matter of act, karate teaches you differently than this) ... It's about building self-esteem; building coordination; giving them those tools they need ! Just as equal to parent deciding braces for their kids or pushing them in sports or the goal of college ! Kids need help in surviving in societ NOW !
“Self-control is the chief element in self-respect, and self-respect is the chief element in courage.”
― Thucydides
Also see what I found online in LYH:
YWCA, Coming soon: The Daily Drama, an anti-bullying program.
For more information contact Jenna Lodge or Leslie Bailey at 434-528-1041.
We need to stand together in Lynchburg (just like Internet issues with children and Domestic Violence) ! If you personally hear of any additional involvement or movement, remember to call me too ! (434) 473-7470
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